http://www.lovelyish.com/754963910/the-3-most-important-things-ive-learned-about-dating-in-my-20s/

Great article. The first and second I've definitely learned first hand more than once. :\
So that means, that, by him not knowing himself he's rejected me. Ok, great to know.
Time to move the fuck on. I feel like I'm progressing with that. Now, the extent of it is wanting to see him so we can trip together. And by that I fully mean JUST trip. :)